Thursday, July 31, 2014

Principles in mathematics and electricity can help a rocky marriage

In one of my previous posts I explained how the ionic bond between one sodium atom and one chlorine atom is akin to the bond between a man and a woman, or more precisely between husband and wife.

This time I would like to suggest that a smooth marriage can be achieved with a basic understanding of electrical logic gates and mathematical truth tables. I know it sounds strange and geeky, but please bear with me. I think there really could be some "truth" to this.

In a marriage important decisions have to be made all the time, whether it be about where you are going to live, what house you are going to buy, what colour to paint the walls, where your children will go to school, etc. These decisions may not sound too serious, but over time, if important life decisions aren't made with proper consideration of your spouse, things may get unpleasant. I can attest to a few moments in my own marriage where I probably should have had a conversation with my wife before acting. 

I'm not a marriage counsellor, but I think that if you are newly married, or if your marriage is on the rocky side, then this principle in electricity and mathematics could help you. It's called the XNOR gate with its corresponding mathematical truth table. 

XNOR gate

XNOR
The image shown on the left is a graphical representation of an Exclusive-Not-OR gate (XNOR) in an integrated circuit. It is also known as logical equality. There are two inputs (A and B), and there is one output (Q).


Mathematical truth table for XNOR gate

The XNOR (logical equality) truth table on the right shows that both inputs have to be either '0' or '1' for the output (Q) to be 1. If either input A or input B are '0', then output Q will be '0'.

In an integrated circuit with a light bulb, this means that the light bulb will go 'on' if input 'A' and input 'B' are both set to 'high' voltage, or both set to 'low' or 'ground'.

Truth table in marriage

So what does all this have to do with marriage? Well, if you follow the logic of the XNOR gate just presented, it means that the only way to achieve agreement on any issue in a marriage is if both husband and wife offer the same input. In other words, if they both say 'no' to something, then they are in agreement, and if they both say 'yes', then they are also in agreement, which means no quarrelling!

I find it very interesting that when an integrated circuit contains an XNOR gate, it produces the same logic required for happy marriages. My wife and I follow the XNOR gate system in our marriage. In any situation, if one person says 'no' to something, then it has the power of a veto. For example, the other day I wanted to go for a jog even though the forecast called for thunder and rain. It hadn't started yet, so I thought it would be perfect timing to go for a jog. Rain wouldn't stop me before when I was single. However, my wife actually has a strong fear that I could get struck by lightning, so she told me not to go. At that moment, I was faced with a choice. I could have decided to go jogging anyway, thereby upsetting my wife, but then I remembered the truth table for XNOR gates. I decided not to go jogging, and although my inconvenience was relatively minor, it really made my wife happy that I listened to her.

I see this as an example of deferring to one's spouse for the good of the relationship. Both small and large sacrifices have to be made in a marriage to make it work. The better both spouses are at sacrificing, the happier and smoother their marriage will be. Essentially, there is no room for selfishness in a marriage. It's all about giving, and while both spouses are giving of themselves and not being selfish, both of them receive as well.

For a smooth marriage, stick to the principle of the XNOR gate!

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  • AND gate in action in an integrated circuit




Monday, July 28, 2014

America movie - interview with Dinesh D'Souza

This is a must-watch interview with Dinesh D'Souza. He discusses his newly released movie, America, as well as the Costo controversy, Google glitch, the campaign charges against him, and his views about Obama. D'Souza is a well-known author of many interesting books, such as What's So Great About Christianity?

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Friday, July 25, 2014

Mark Levin radio show toasts Harper government

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The Canadian Press
Published Friday, July 25, 2014 12:51PM EDT
Last Updated Friday, July 25, 2014 1:24PM EDT

WASHINGTON -- A highly popular conservative radio talk show in the United States has heaped praise on Canada's Harper government, while simultaneously blasting U.S. President Barack Obama and his administration.

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Monday, July 14, 2014

New subjects - feminist biology, femistry and galgebra

photo: courtesy of the AEI, wikipedia
I have known for some time that feminism has become militant to the detriment of western culture, but I haven't begun to know the half of it.

This vlog (video blog) by Christina Hoff Sommers exposes many of the lies being put forward by feminists and institutions, usually based on disingenuous interpretation of statistics, or based on statistics fabricated from faulty information gathering techniques and invalid sample sizes. When credible statistics are interpreted correctly, they end up supporting the need to help men rather than women.

Please watch this refreshing and eye-opening series, called the Factual Feminist, produced by the American Enterprise Institute.

All episodes can be found here on YouTube.

Note, the title of this post was adapted from The Simpsons (season 16, episode 'Future-Drama') and the Factual Feminist (episode 9).

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Sunday, July 13, 2014

Justice Clarence Thomas on 60 Minutes

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In this excellent 2007 clip on 60 Minutes, Supreme Court Justice, Clarence Thomas, discusses his nomination at the age of 43, and all the hoops he had to jump through, including allegations of sexual harassment by Anita Hill.

In the interview, Thomas reveals that the attempted lynching was all about abortion. In his words, "It was the elephant in the room."

In this statement below, Thomas turns the table against his interrogators, and effectively ends the debate.
This is a circus. It's a national disgrace. It is a high-tech lynching for uppity blacks, who in any way deign to think for themselves. It is a message that unless you kowtow to an old order, you will be lynched, destroyed, characatured, by a committee of the U.S. Senate rather than hung from a tree. 
"I think it is always worth it to stand on principle no matter what the ultimate goal is. Wrong is wrong, even if it was over a penny." -- Justice Clarence Thomas

The man is a hero.